TBT- My kids are missing out on some sweet cars

When we were on vacation this summer I happened to see a brown Pinto (I can't believe someone still owns one of those).  I laughed and pointed it out to my husband and kids and told them we had one of those growing up.  My husband laughed and said you guys had all of the horrible cars growing up.... my parents had a knack for picking them.   My kids are missing out on some traumatic sweet experiences we had as kids with the cars my parents owned, such as:

• Piling 6 kids into a brown, hatchback Pinto that really only had 2 rear seats with a hump in the middle- Remember it was the 70s, before seatbelt laws. 

•  Having the horn honk on our orange VW bus every time it turned  left   -OR-
•  Having to run out and start said VW bus because it has, yet again, stalled on a very busy street.  How did we restart it, picture this- sitting at the busiest intersection at a red light.  Light turns green and the orange VW bus in front of you isn't moving.  Next thing you see is a child, between 6 to 14 years of age opening the sliding side door, jumping out of the car (with cars in other lanes moving...) child runs to the back of the car, opens the hatch and sticks their little hand inside where the engine is... Child runs back into the car and off goes the orange VW -while you can't figure out what just happened...  that was us on many occasions.  

•   My kids won't know the joy of having a car with wood paneling.  I'm not going to lie, I was in elementary school when my parents got this car and I truly loved it! I'm sure my siblings in high school weren't thrilled about the wood paneling or the baby blue... 

• They won't know the joy of sitting in the very back of the car, sitting in seats facing the cars behind you and flashing naked Barbies at them. 
• Having a canary yellow VW Rabbit- those diesels last forever and yes my dad must have had a thing for canary yellow. 

•  Being 16 and driving this hooptie.  Funny thing this car ended up getting stolen and was stripped of it's parts.  I remember we were in Canada with my mom when my dad called and told us what had happened.   Bless those thieves, I was so happy it was gone. 

• The joy of being able to sit in a rental car... oh I remember the Lincoln my parents rented to drive to a family reunion- which I'm pretty sure we didn't all fit with seat belts but it had a plush interior so no one was complaining- sweet stuff.

I'm not trying to knock on my parents, they did what they had to, I mean they had 6 kids and it was the 70s/ 80s.  I actually love that I have these stories to look back on and laugh at.  Just glad we all survived with no car seats, seat belts and running in traffic to start our VW bus.   

Interesting thing, my first car I bought was a black Honda Del Sol, two door, T-top, sporty car- totally impractical, but super cute and fun to drive....hummm I wonder what the psychology behind that is : ) 

Sarah's birthday.... it's just hard

Today is a bitter sweet day for me.  Sweet because it is the day, 8 years ago, that I met our youngest daughter Sarah Rose.  We feel it is a privilege to have her as part of our family.  We have come a long way and every year my heart hurts because she isn't here today to celebrate her life and this day is a reminder of all that we have missed with her.  We have tried to gain as much as we can from what has happened.  Since it has happened and we can't change it we pray we can make the most of it (I think that helps us not focus on how much we've missed).



Grief feels different at different times, her birthday is a trigger for it.  This summer I was in the Pacific Ocean, which off of Northern California can be pretty chilly.  I went in the water up to my shoulders, it was so cold that it took my breath away.  I hopped over 1-2 waves then realized I couldn't take the cold.  I was having a hard time taking a deep breath and the cold felt like it was squishing my chest- it actually felt like it could be dangerous so I got out.

 I feel that way with grief.  It will literally take my breath away- I need to address it -ride the wave- and let it be (aka cry) and then I can get out of the depths of it.  Yes I still felt cold after I got out of the ocean but I was able to warm up from the sun and a towel.  I still feel the grief of losing Sarah but I can feel warmth from it.  The warmth is the HOPE that I have that I will see her sweet little face again.  Happy Birthday sweet, chubs!

My BBC Obsession

I have been so busy lately.. you know vacation is just so tiring- hehe.  It's actually the recovery from vacation that is tiring.  Every time I think of blogging I start, but never finish a post. Recently I found a blog post with awesome suggestions on  Dramas to watch on Netflix - click here to see that list.

 I am always looking for good shows to watch and realized all the shows I've been watching recently seem to be from the BBC .   I thought I'd share a few of these with you, who doesn't like a good BBC detective show.

My commentary on these in general is I like that most of the actors aren't perfect looking, they look like normal everyday people.  It does drive me a little nuts because in all of the detective shows none of them have guns, yet they are in situations where they clearly need them... makes me a little anxious.  I wonder how they can do it in real life without guns.... 

So here is a list of the top 5 detective BBC shows plus a BBC sitcom I have recently watched:


Luther- 3 Seasons on Netflix
A dedicated urban detective dealing with criminals as well as his home life.  I really liked this show, intense and it doesn't hurt that John Luther is a hottie.  More about it here

Broadchurch 1 Season on Netflix
Detectives trying to solve a murder in a small town.  A lot of different suspects.  I believe this was made into a US version but only has one season.  The British version has 2 seasons (and a 3rd coming out) but currently only 1 available on Netflix.  You can buy season 2 on Amazon.  I love this show- great character development as different things unwind in the small town.

Vexed- 2 Seasons on Netflix
Two detectives working together but totally different personalities- he is a slacker and obnoxious, she is driven and professional.  Funny and a bit irreverent- I liked season 1 but didn't get into season 2

White Chapel- Amazon
I am sad that Amazon isn't offering this to Prime members anymore (you can buy the seasons on Amazon), a really good series about a group of detectives solving different murders, season 1 is about a Jack the Ripper copy cat killer.

Happy Valley 1 Season on Netflix (working on season 2-thankfully!)
About a woman who is a police sergeant pursuing the man who assaulted her late daughter.    This is intense, has some language, but good.  

Delivery Man 1 Season on Netflix
This is not a detective show, sitcom, but fits into my current BBC obsession.  About a male police officer turned midwife... funny with great dialogue and characters.  I hope they make more seasons, I really liked the humor.

I just put the following BBC shows on my watch list:
A Young Doctor's Notebook
Wallander
An Honorable Woman
Hinterland
Bletchley Circle
The Monarch of the Glen

I might have a British accent by the end of summer : )  What are some of your favorites??
 Enjoy and happy watching!!